& when you walked away, I count the steps that you take..♥
Friday, December 18, 2009
& When the party's over. I'll come over your place, and you can have all the night with me.
What if you knew how tocaptivate a man, make him fall in love with you, and give you everything you desire? Sound too good to be true? It’s not! You can understand men. You can win their hearts. The good news is, they want you to.There are many reasons why women have relationship trouble, but the main reason is that women simply don't understand men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her heart desires.Love is not just a feeling. It’s a choice, a commitment, a way of behaving toward another. Love is notsimply an event that happens to you. Rather, love is something you choose to do. The state of being in love is simply a prelude to love. But most people make the mistake of thinking they’re one and the same thing. We are all given circumstances by which we can exercise the choice to love. That’s the thunderbolt that God supplies. It’s that instant attraction to another person, those warm, fuzzy feelings, that fever akin to drunkenness or madness that causes you to know that you’re in love. Butit’s what you choose to do after that thunderbolt has passed that matters. You choose whether you’re going to continue loving the other person after the drunkenness has dissipated, after the frills of romance have fallen away. You choose whether you’re going to continue to seek the best interests of the other person, and care about him or her through any and all circumstances -- and for how long. Love is a conscious choice.
A personal adage of mine that I live by is this: "True love is the ability to choose one person above all, and the ability to celebrate that choice for as long as you live." If both you and your mate are able to mutually live by this adage, then you're on your way to a fruitful and enduring relationship. Isn't this a more empowering way to love and be loved? This way, you won't have to fear the volatility of love as you presently know it.
Sigh. I miss Muhammad Sufi so much now. Am going to sleep now..
♥ 1:52 AM,
Sitting Down Reminiscing The
Melancholy Feelings And The Agony Heart.